Choose trust, closeness and commitment · D5.18
Consider what would be needed after broken trust
Trust has been affected and you want to consider options without assuming reconciliation is required.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Name the agreement or expectation that was broken and its practical impact.
- Identify what information, accountability, changed behavior, distance, or support you would need before deciding anything further.
- Choose a next step within your control. You can defer a decision or choose not to rebuild contact.
An example
Before making another shared plan, I need clarity about what happened and whether the arrangement can change.
Reflect
What evidence would matter over time, and what cannot be resolved by a promise alone?
Next time
Take the pace and support the situation requires; trust cannot be demanded.
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