Choose trust, closeness and commitment · S14.12

Define what rebuilding trust would require

You are considering whether trust could be rebuilt after a breach.

Everyday practice

Try these steps

1. Name the behavior that affected trust and the boundary you need now.
2. Identify specific actions, accountability, or information that would matter; reconciliation is optional.
3. Decide whether you want a discussion, more distance, or outside support, and assess actions over time rather than promises.

An example

I would need agreed notice before my belongings are used again; I am not ready to lend them now.

Reflect

Are the requirements specific and chosen by you?

Next time

Revise your decision based on behavior and your needs.