Choose comfort and preferences about touch · S12.19
Choose a form of self-comfort that respects your preferences
A suggested self-soothing practice involves touch.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Notice whether touch is welcome to you right now.
- Choose a familiar comfortable option or a non-contact alternative such as words, sound, or a view.
- Stop or change it whenever you want; no gesture is required to prove self-acceptance.
An example
I prefer a kind sentence on a note to placing a hand on my body.
Reflect
Was the option freely chosen and comfortable?
Next time
Use different options on different days if preferred.
Make a worksheet with this skill