Keep breathing attention optional · S12.1
Take a pause without forcing a breathing pattern
You want a brief pause during an ordinary task or conversation.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Choose to stop the task briefly or ask for time.
- Let breathing happen naturally, or place attention on a neutral external detail instead.
- Decide whether to continue, change the task, or ask for support.
An example
I need a moment to read this before answering.
Reflect
Did the pause give you room to choose?
Next time
Use a pause by need rather than a fixed breathing count.
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