Build a cue and a small routine · S3.3
Make a clear if-then plan
You want a simple agreement with yourself about when to do a small action.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Choose an action and a specific situation that could cue it.
- Write ‘If this happens, then I will try this action.’ Include a smaller alternative for a day when the action will not fit.
- Decide how you will notice that you tried it. Use a simple mark or note if helpful, without adding a penalty for missing it.
An example
If I finish lunch at home, I’ll put one item away. If I’m rushed, I’ll leave a reminder for later.
Reflect
Was the cue clear and the action feasible?
Next time
Revise the plan instead of escalating rewards or punishments.
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