Share personally on your own terms · S14.6

Ask a curious question without demanding disclosure

You want to understand someone better while respecting their privacy.

Everyday practice

Try these steps

1. Choose an open question relevant to the conversation.
2. Make it clear they can decline or answer briefly.
3. Listen to the answer they choose to give rather than pushing for a deeper one.

An example

Would you like to say what part of the plan feels difficult, or would you rather focus on the practical details?

Reflect

Did the question preserve choice?

Next time

Let their response guide whether the topic continues.