Choose or review a commitment · S13.13
Describe the change you want in plain language
You want to explain your direction without a motivational slogan.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Write what you want less of and what you want more of, using concrete examples.
- Name your reasons and the obstacles that still matter.
- Choose one exploratory step or explain the direction to a trusted person if useful.
An example
I want fewer last-minute commitments and more time for planned work; I will check my calendar before agreeing.
Reflect
Is the direction specific enough to guide a choice?
Next time
Review it after trying the first step rather than promising a new identity.
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