Consider another view or update an opinion · D8.13
Try wording that leaves room for possibility
A belief closes off an option before you have considered its details.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Write the limiting statement without requiring yourself to reject it.
- Identify what is uncertain or context-dependent and add that qualification.
- Name one option the qualified statement leaves open, if any.
An example
‘I cannot speak in groups’ could become ‘Large unfamiliar groups are hard; I could prepare one question for a smaller meeting.’
Reflect
Does the wording feel accurate, or too optimistic?
Next time
Use qualifications that fit the evidence rather than positive slogans.
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