Invite connection and shared time · D4.19
Balance contact and time alone for this week
Your plans do not leave enough of one kind of time you want.
Everyday practice
Try these steps
- Look at the commitments already in place and notice where you want more contact or more solitude.
- Choose one adjustment that is feasible and respectful of existing agreements.
- Communicate it and leave room to reassess after you experience the change.
An example
I want to see my friend and also need a quiet evening, so I suggest a shorter afternoon visit.
Reflect
Did the adjustment fit your needs better?
Next time
Plan from your experience rather than a fixed ideal ratio.
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